We were best friends and I always had fun with him. He made me feel secure, loved and special (the exact opposite of my past relationships)
After we were married, I had a bad injury, which caused some major health issues. This sparked a PTSD reaction from my past abuse and caused interference from my family in our marriage.
My loving husband became critical, negative and frustrated. We have had a lot of problems and I will admit that I did not handle some them well at all.
We have been on a roller coaster of up and down since then.
He hasn't kissed me in years, but expects sex every night and gets angry if he says I don't act like I'm "into it"
He never says anything nice to me, still complains about everything and says that everything is my fauly because I treat him like my ex's and not himself.
When I tell him that he is talking to me disrespectfully, he says that he does so because he is tired of me always hurting his feelings by not wanting to spend time with him, and that he tried to be nice to me for years and that didn't work, so he is not being nice anymore.
I tell him that I don't want to spend time with him because he is mean to me and makes me feel like crap.
He says now that I better become the person that he married again or he is going to leave. I want to, but how can I when I feel no love from him?
He expects me to just turn back into the happy, confident person that I used to be when all I ever hear is how miserable I have made him for 10 years.
He refuses to go to counseling; says that I need to go alone, because I am the one with the issues.
don't know what to do. I want my marriage to be good again
Source: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general-relationship-discussion/53202-trying-fix-marriage.html
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